
Your two sets of labia serve very important functions. That, my friends, is what we call a ridiculous double standard. Isn’t it funny how the longer a man’s penis is the more we praise him for it, but the longer a woman’s labia are the less desirable she is considered to be? Have genitals that take up space, that hang, that doesn’t look like what men see in porn, that’s considered undesirable, and the lengthening a byproduct of excessive use. No one comes out and directly says that having longer inner labia makes you look slutty, but the connotation is there. There are women who are so concerned about their “outies” that they have plastic surgery, known as labiaplasty, to cut back their inner labia and make them look more appealing. While we can roll our eyes and move on when confronted with men dictating how a woman’s pubic hair should look, the natural shape of a women’s labia (which is what we’re really talking about here) isn’t something that should be put into a man’s hands. Yes, we are now discussing whether you have an “innie” or “outie” vagina.


There’s a great debate about which is “better” and which is “worse” - having long inner labia that extend past your outer labia or having outer labia that extend past your inner labia, keeping them nice and contained. It’s because we live in a world where, as a woman, you are defined by what’s between your legs and by what you choose to do with it.Ī great example of this is the typical conversation you can find online about women and their vaginas, is the dialogue about how a woman’s labia are supposed to look. We understand why some women carry shame about the way their vaginas look.
